Day 81

I went out an met up with that guy tonight. It was good and casual. I didn't eat but had a drink and when the check came by and he wanted to pay I made it clear that I was only allowing him to pay at his insistence because I do that with my friends, let them pay and get the next one. He said something like he wouldn't let me pay for the next one either so I was getting the picture that he wasn't thinking on the same wave length as me.

So, while it was not my intention, I ended up explaining a lot of the past "non-relationship" I had. He was interested in knowing what happened but as the story was...I guess getting a bit lengthy, he was trying to get me to cut to the ending. Anyone who knows me knows I can't just do that because the subsequent questions will just have be backtracking anyway, and I hate going out of chronological order, dude. I broke the rule of not talking about an ex (not really anything remotely like an ex, but you know, talking about someone I was/am hung up on) and he suggested I get in contact with him again since it was obviously so fresh on my mind.

When I tried to explain why that would not be a good idea he cut me off by mentioning what time it was and that he other things to do before heading home. We could talk more about it and other things another time. Right.

I drove home giggling about my new found weapon to detract admirers. Will note for the future.